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It isn’t an easy time for me, now. Again.
I’m sorry if I’m not just happy and carefree, but I try to share the reality of what goes on in my life, as in an open diary.
I need it.
I’d be lying if I left out.
This blog was born for my need to write and vent, so I’ll always be honest – although not too specific.
My father is ill, and everything is aggravated – or lightened? – from my Mom’s loss, 16 months ago.
Yet once again I’m optimistic.
I know how life is right.
I know how wonderful everything is when viewed from the right perspective, and I do.
I know everything happens for a reason – right.
And that everything serves to teach us something fundamental and surmountable.
Happiness is a choice, it depends on how you choose to look at life.
I wish I could help everyone in this vision, but I know that a path, a moment, a destiny is needed.
So I leave you only one piece of advice, and ask you to trust me.
Never let yourself go.
Whatever may happen, anything life can tell you, any situation may meet you, any drama may call you,
Never.
Give.
Up.
Only those who stop really lose.
There will always be a good reason to move forward, a beauty ready to welcome you beyond the dark sky. A rosy light of redemption.
This is a sunrise, not a sunset. Trust me.
xx Dasynka
ITALIANO
Non è un periodo semplice per me, ora. Di nuovo.
Mi dispiace se non sono solo allegria e spensieratezza, ma cerco di condividere la realtà di ciò che succede nella mia vita, come in un diario aperto.
Ne ho bisogno.
Mentirei se omettessi.
Il blog è nato come esigenza di scrivere e sfogare, quindi sarò sempre sincera – seppur non troppo specifica.
Mio padre non sta bene, e il tutto è aggravato – o alleggerito? – dalla perdita di Mamma, 16 mesi fa.
Eppure, ancora una volta, io sono ottimista.
Lo so quanto la vita sia giusta.
So quanto sia tutto meraviglioso se guardato con l’ottica giusta, ed io lo faccio.
So che ogni cosa accade per un motivo – giusto.
E che tutto serve ad insegnarci qualcosa di fondamentale e superabile.
La felicità è una scelta, dipende da come si sceglie di guardare alla vita.
Mi piacerebbe poter regalare questa visione a tutti, ma so che serve un percorso, un momento, un destino.
Allora provo a lasciarvi solo un consiglio, chiedendovi di fidarvi di me.
Non lasciatevi mai andare.
Qualsiasi cosa possa succedere, qualsiasi cosa la vita possa dirvi, qualsiasi situazione possa incontrarvi, qualsiasi dramma possa chiamarvi,
Voi.
Non.
Arrendetevi.
Mai.
Solo chi si ferma perde veramente.
Ci sarà sempre un buon motivo per andare avanti, una bellezza pronta ad accogliervi oltre il cielo scuro. Una rosea luce di redenzione.
Queste è un’alba, non un tramonto. Fidatevi di me.
xx Dasynka
Photography by Carmela.vix, www.carmelavicedomini.it
66 commenti
You look lovely in this shooting! I hope your dad gets better soon xxx
Thank you so so much❤️ xx
I love this shooting! I hope for your dad to get better soon xxx
Thank you so much❤️ xx
Sorry to hear that your father isn’t well. Hope everything gets better soon x
Thank you❤️ xx
Loving your dress – that color in particualr is stunning. I’m so sorry to hear your having a really bad time at the moment, sending lots of love and support. Thanks for sharing motivational advice on coping as well though, that’s truly inspirational that you can do that when you’re having such a bad time.
Heather xoxo
Thank you for taking time to read me and write me. That’s always so important and supporting for me❤️ xx
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad and loss of your mother. You are amazingly strong, sending you lots of love hun xx
Thank you so much for love❤️ xx
It’s easy to give up, but you’re so right in saying that only those who stop lose. Wishing you and your family all the best! There’s no right way to grieve. I’m terrible with advice, but all I wish for you is to be surrounded with loved ones you can lean on <3 Stay strong!
All these sweet words mean the world for me, thank you from the bottom of my heart❤️ xx
Very sorry that your father isn’t well – so nice to read your words and an honest account of how you feel. Wish you all the best!
Miriam xx
Thank you so so much for your kind words❤️ xx
I’m happy that you’re real when you’re expressing your feelings. I hope your father will feel better soon. Sending him all of my best wishes. At the end of the day, you have to stay positive to keep on moving forward. I’m here if you want to talk :).
You are so deeply sweet, always and always. Thank you so hard, thank you so much❤️ xx
While I agree that happiness is a choice, my heart would be aching if any member of my family was unwell, so it’s hurting for you right now. Take care of yourself lady, we are thinking of you and your family and sending hope and love your way!
Susie
Thank you so so much Susie, thank you from heart❤️ xx
I’m so sorry that you are going through a tough time, but your message is so beautiful and very hopeful! Thank you for sharing!
Thanks for reading, your time and words❤️ xx
I’m sorry your father isn’t well, that’s not good. I hope he will get better soon and your mood and outlook can be brighter. Stay strong! Love the whole shooting and the dress!
Raindrops of Sapphire
Thanks really so much for your words, that means the world for me❤️ xx
I am sorry to learn that your father isn’t well, wishing him speedy recovery!
I absolutely love your shooting, it’s so emotional!
Wishing you a smooth sailing week! 🙂
xx
Ankita
Thank you so much for your time and your words❤️ they mean so much for me, xx
Such a beautiful shooting! Hope you are having a better week.
Gemma x
Thanks, you too! xx
I am sorry to hear your father isn’t well. I hope he recovers soon.
Anne – Linda, Libra, Loca
I hope so, thank you❤️ xx
I admire your optimism despite going through trials right now. Your post inspired me to be hopeful about the future and to keep moving forward despite also having a lot on my plate. It could be overwhelming sometimes but I’m glad you’re still holding on. I hope your dad would be okay. ❤️
Rox | Transcendent Light
Your words mean the world for me, you are so sweet❤️ thank you so much for taking time for me, I wish you to be so strong for everything in your life❤️ xx
You look amazing doll. Love both the shooting and what you wrote. Thanks for sharing it!
Have a wonderful day!
Much love, Len
XO
Thanks, xx
Sorry you’re going through a tough time, sending you lots of love
You look absolutely gorgeous in this amazing sunset shooting
xx
Lizzie | Takeoffs & Landings
Thank you so much for your words❤️ xx
what a gorgeous shooting babe! love love it!!
kisses from the sandpit ♡
Thanks so, xx
I love so much this sunset shooting !
Lauren
Thanks! xx
Sorry for the loss of your mother, and I am hoping everything goes okay with your father! Stay strong!
-Emily
Thank you so much for kindness❤️ xx
I am sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time. I hope your father gets well. And staying positive is key. I know how you feel I lost my job and I work in an industry that is dying (publishing) and my mother was diagnosed with cancer so I know life is not easy sometimes.
Allie of ALLIENYC
Oh Allie, I’m so sorry for your situation but nothing happens by case and everything can have positive implications, new possibilities and evolutions.. I wish you the better and so much love for life, even when everything seems go down❤️ I’m with you, xx
You create a dramatic, emotional atmosphere and everything looks so beautifully together and so deep in meaning 🙂
Thanks so much babe, xx
LOVE your shooting. Sending lots of love for whatever you’re going through, girly.
xo, Emily
That’s so important for me, thank you so❤️ xx
Such beautiful words and gorgeous photos <3 We are sending lots of love and good vibes your way <333
xoxo
Victoria and Meghan
Thank you so much babes❤️ xx
Great shooting, you look gorgeous!
Magda
Thank so, xx
I’m so sorry you lost your mom 🙁 I can’t imagine that loss, let alone that your father is not well now! I’m very very sorry about it! I hope everything turns out better. I love your honesty and that you share everything on your blog! It must take some courage to do such a thing!!!
Love,
Olga from Myme
Olga, can’t thank you enough for your time, your empathy, your words and your love. Thank you really so so much, that’s so important for me❤️ xx
You are gorgeous. I love the shooting and dress.
Thanks, xx
Hope everything will get better for you and your family. xx
Thank you so so much❤️ xx
I hope the circumstances get better soon. Also it’s your blog and you shouldn’t be anything but yourself or apologize for it 🙂 Stay positive xx
Thanks so much for your words❤️ there was a time when someone says I manipulate these situations to get more followers. So I’m here to remember that it’s my space, born first for myself. xx
What a beautiful message, I always find your stories full of hope and perseverance. Super love your shooting, the dress is adorable.
You are so sweet ♥ thanks so much for reading and for your words, xx
This dress is amazing and whole shooting too! Hope things are getting better for you.
Thank you really so much ♥ xx
I totally agree with your words!
I’m so glad for that 🙂 xx
Sending lots of love xx
Thanks, xx