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TRUST ME

It’s not an easy time for me, now. Again.
I’m sorry guys if I’m not just happy and carefree, but I’m trying to share the real myself and what’s going on in me life right now as in an open diary. I need it. I would lie if I omitted. My blog has born for this my need to write and vent, so I will always be sincere – although not too specific.
My father isn’t well, and everything is aggravated – or lightened? – from the loss of my Mom, 16 months ago.
Yet again, I am positive. I know how life is right. I know how wonderful everything is if you look with the right lens, and I do it. I know that everything happens for a reason – right one. And that everything serves to teach us something fundamental and surmountable. Happiness is a choice, it depends on how you choose to look at life.
I would like to be able to help everyone in this, but I realize how complex it’s to listen, for others. So I try to leave you only an advice and ask you to trust me.

Never give up. Whatever may happen, anything life can tell you, any situation can meet you, any drama can call you, you
Never.
Give.
Up.Only those who stop really lose.
There will always a good reason to go ahead.
There is no sense to stop. There will always be a beauty ready to welcome you beyond the dark sky. A rosy light of redemption.
This is a sunrise, not a sunset. Trust me.
xx Dasynka

PS. I thank Shein for this wonderful outfit: trench coat and skirt.


Non è un periodo semplice per me, ora. Di nuovo.
Mi dispiace se non sono solo allegra e spensierata, ma cerco di condividere la me reale e ciò che succede nella mia vita come in un diario aperto. Ne ho bisogno. Mentirei se omettessi. Il blog è nato per questo mio bisogno di scrivere e sfogare, quindi sarò sempre sincera – pur non essendo troppo specifica.
Mio padre non sta bene, e il tutto è aggravato – o alleggerito? – dalla perdita di mamma, 16 mesi fa.
Eppure, ancora una volta, io sono positiva. Lo so quanto la vita sia giusta. So quanto sia tutto meraviglioso se guardato con l’ottica giusta, ed io lo faccio. So che ogni cosa accade per un motivo – giusto. E che tutto serve ad insegnarci qualcosa di fondamentale e superabile. La felicità è una scelta, dipende da come si sceglie di guardare alla vita.
Mi piacerebbe poter aiutare tutti quanti in questo, ma mi rendo conto di quanto sia complesso ascoltare, per gli altri. Allora provo a lasciarvi solo un consiglio e chiedervi di fidarvi di me.

Non lasciatevi mai andare. Qualsiasi cosa possa succedere, qualsiasi cosa la vita possa dirvi, qualsiasi situazione possa incontrarvi, qualsiasi dramma possa chiamarvi, voi
Non.
Arrendetevi.
Mai.
Solo chi si ferma perde veramente.
Ci sarà sempre un buon motivo per andare avanti.
Non c’è ragione di fermarsi. Ci sarà sempre una bellezza pronta ad accogliervi oltre il cielo scuro. Una rosea luce di redenzione.
Queste è un’alba, non un tramonto. Fidatevi di me.
xx Dasynka

PS. Ringrazio Shein per questo outfit meraviglioso: trench e gonna.

OUTFIT OF THE DAY

TRENCH: Shein (here)
SKIRT: Shein (here)
DOLCEVITA: Forever21 (similar here)
BOOTS: Zara (similar here)
HAT: Asos (here)
BAG: Stradivarius (here)
SUNGLASSES: Asos (here)
WATCH: Paul Hewitt

Photography by Carmela.vix, www.carmelavicedomini.it

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66 Comments

  • Reply
    Nevena Krstic
    19 March 2018 at 19:43

    You look lovely in this outfit! I hope your dad gets better soon xxx

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      dasynka
      21 March 2018 at 15:36

      Thank you so so much❤️ xx

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    Nevena
    19 March 2018 at 19:28

    You look lovely in this outfit! I hope your dad gets better soon xxx

    • Reply
      dasynka
      21 March 2018 at 15:36

      Thank you so much❤️ xx

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    Annick
    18 March 2018 at 14:39

    Sorry to hear that your father isn’t well. Hope everything gets better soon x

    • Reply
      dasynka
      19 March 2018 at 10:05

      Thank you❤️ xx

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    Heather Rowland
    18 March 2018 at 9:59

    Loving your outfits – that skirt in particualr is stunning. I’m so sorry to hear your having a really bad time at the moment, sending lots of love and support. Thanks for sharing motivational advice on coping as well though, that’s truly inspirational that you can do that when you’re having such a bad time.

    Heather xoxo

    • Reply
      dasynka
      19 March 2018 at 10:04

      Thank you for taking time to read me and write me. That’s always so important and supporting for me❤️ xx

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    Dominique
    18 March 2018 at 1:56

    I’m so sorry to hear about your dad and loss of your mother. You are amazingly strong, sending you lots of love hun xx

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      dasynka
      19 March 2018 at 10:03

      Thank you so much for love❤️ xx

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    Audrey | Brunch at Audrey's
    17 March 2018 at 21:26

    It’s easy to give up, but you’re so right in saying that only those who stop lose. Wishing you and your family all the best! There’s no right way to grieve. I’m terrible with advice, but all I wish for you is to be surrounded with loved ones you can lean on <3 Stay strong!

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      dasynka
      19 March 2018 at 10:02

      All these sweet words mean the world for me, thank you from the bottom of my heart❤️ xx

  • Reply
    Miriam
    17 March 2018 at 18:51

    Very sorry that your father isn’t well – so nice to read your words and an honest account of how you feel. Wish you all the best!

    Miriam xx

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      dasynka
      19 March 2018 at 10:00

      Thank you so so much for your kind words❤️ xx

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    Nancy
    16 March 2018 at 19:59

    I’m happy that you’re real when you’re expressing your feelings. I hope your father will feel better soon. Sending him all of my best wishes. At the end of the day, you have to stay positive to keep on moving forward. I’m here if you want to talk :).

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      dasynka
      17 March 2018 at 17:22

      You are so deeply sweet, always and always. Thank you so hard, thank you so much❤️ xx

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    Susie @ Mile High Dreamers
    16 March 2018 at 3:04

    While I agree that happiness is a choice, my heart would be aching if any member of my family was unwell, so it’s hurting for you right now. Take care of yourself lady, we are thinking of you and your family and sending hope and love your way!

    Susie

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      dasynka
      17 March 2018 at 17:21

      Thank you so so much Susie, thank you from heart❤️ xx

  • Reply
    Valerie
    15 March 2018 at 23:35

    I’m so sorry that you are going through a tough time, but your message is so beautiful and very hopeful! Thank you for sharing!

    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2018 at 17:20

      Thanks for reading, your time and words❤️ xx

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    Lorna
    15 March 2018 at 15:30

    I’m sorry your father isn’t well, that’s not good. I hope he will get better soon and your mood and outlook can be brighter. Stay strong! Love the outfit and the belt bag!

    Raindrops of Sapphire

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      dasynka
      17 March 2018 at 17:19

      Thanks really so much for your words, that means the world for me❤️ xx

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    Ankita
    14 March 2018 at 18:03

    I am sorry to learn that your father isn’t well, wishing him speedy recovery!
    I absolutely love your monochrome outfit, it’s so chic!
    Wishing you a smooth sailing week! 🙂
    xx
    Ankita

    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2018 at 17:18

      Thank you so much for your time and your words❤️ they mean so much for me, xx

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    Gemma
    14 March 2018 at 17:07

    Great outfits! Hope you are having a nice week.

    Gemma x

    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2018 at 17:17

      Thanks, you too! xx

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    LindaLibraLoca
    13 March 2018 at 14:52

    I am sorry to hear your father isn’t well. I hope he recovers soon.

    Anne – Linda, Libra, Loca

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      dasynka
      14 March 2018 at 12:01

      I hope so, thank you❤️ xx

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    Rox
    13 March 2018 at 13:51

    I admire your optimism despite going through trials right now. Your post inspired me to be hopeful about the future and to keep moving forward despite also having a lot on my plate. It could be overwhelming sometimes but I’m glad you’re still holding on. I hope your dad would be okay. ❤️

    Rox | Transcendent Light

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      dasynka
      14 March 2018 at 12:00

      Your words mean the world for me, you are so sweet❤️ thank you so much for taking time for me, I wish you to be so strong for everything in your life❤️ xx

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    Len
    13 March 2018 at 12:58

    You look amazing doll. Love both of these looks. Thanks for sharing it!
    Have a wonderful day!
    Much love, Len
    XO

    • Reply
      dasynka
      14 March 2018 at 11:58

      Thanks, xx

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    Liz
    13 March 2018 at 11:45

    Sorry you’re going through a tough time, sending you lots of love
    You look absolutely gorgeous in gingham
    xx

    Lizzie | Takeoffs & Landings

    • Reply
      dasynka
      14 March 2018 at 11:58

      Thank you so much for your words❤️ xx

  • Reply
    mahryska
    13 March 2018 at 6:21

    what a gorgeous look babe! love love it!!
    kisses from the sandpit ♡

    • Reply
      dasynka
      14 March 2018 at 11:57

      Thanks so, xx

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    Lauren
    13 March 2018 at 2:27

    Lovely outfits!

    Lauren

    • Reply
      dasynka
      14 March 2018 at 11:57

      Thanks! xx

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    Emily
    12 March 2018 at 23:47

    Sorry for the loss of your mother, and I am hoping everything goes okay with your father! Stay strong!

    -Emily

    • Reply
      dasynka
      14 March 2018 at 11:57

      Thank you so much for kindness❤️ xx

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    Allie Mackin
    12 March 2018 at 19:42

    I am sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time. I hope your father gets well. And staying positive is key. I know how you feel I lost my job and I work in an industry that is dying (publishing) and my mother was diagnosed with cancer so I know life is not easy sometimes.

    Allie of ALLIENYC

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      dasynka
      13 March 2018 at 8:20

      Oh Allie, I’m so sorry for your situation but nothing happens by case and everything can have positive implications, new possibilities and evolutions.. I wish you the better and so much love for life, even when everything seems go down❤️ I’m with you, xx

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    Bambi
    12 March 2018 at 19:15

    That’s such a cool and powerful outfit 🙂

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 19:17

      Thanks so, xx

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    Emily
    12 March 2018 at 17:47

    LOVE your outfits. Sending lots of love for whatever you’re going through, girly.

    xo, Emily

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 19:17

      That’s so important for me, thank you so❤️ xx

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    Picture It Pretty
    12 March 2018 at 17:17

    Such beautiful words and gorgeous photos <3 We are sending lots of love and good vibes your way <333

    xoxo
    Victoria and Meghan

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 19:16

      Thank you so much babes❤️ xx

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    Glory of the Snow
    12 March 2018 at 16:19

    Great outfit, you look gorgeous!
    Magda

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 19:16

      Thank so, xx

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    Olga
    12 March 2018 at 15:43

    I’m so sorry you lost your mom 🙁 I can’t imagine that loss, let alone that your father is not well now! I’m very very sorry about it! I hope everything turns out better. I love your honesty and that you share everything on your blog! It must take some courage to do such a thing!!!

    Love,
    Olga from Myme

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      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 19:15

      Olga, can’t thank you enough for your time, your empathy, your words and your love. Thank you really so so much, that’s so important for me❤️ xx

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    Courtney
    12 March 2018 at 14:59

    You are gorgeous. I love the outfit.

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 19:14

      Thanks, xx

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    Richel V.
    12 March 2018 at 14:36

    Hope everything will get better for you and your family. xx

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 19:14

      Thank you so so much❤️ xx

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    Sharon
    12 March 2018 at 14:00

    I hope the circumstances get better soon. Also it’s your blog and you shouldn’t be anything but yourself or apologize for it 🙂 Stay positive xx

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      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 19:13

      Thanks so much for your words❤️ there was a time when someone says I manipulate these situations to get more followers. So I’m here to remember that it’s my space, born first for myself. xx

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    Mercy
    12 March 2018 at 12:33

    What a beautiful message, I always find your stories full of hope and perseverance. Super love your monochromatic outfit, the dress is adorable.

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 13:34

      You are so sweet ♥ thanks so much for reading and for your words, xx

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    Kathrine Eldridge
    12 March 2018 at 12:32

    This cape dress is amazing! Hope things are getting better for you.

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 13:33

      Thank you really so much ♥ xx

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    Anouk
    11 March 2018 at 21:41

    I totally agree with your words!

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      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 10:39

      I’m so glad for that 🙂 xx

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    the adventurer
    11 March 2018 at 19:35

    Sending lots of love xx

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 March 2018 at 10:38

      Thanks, xx

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