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STEEL

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How often we tend to judge without understanding. And to understand I don’t mean just understand lunge a situation before passing judgment, I mean understand the people.
I intend to understand the steel, before judging it cold.
You may not know that wood and steel have, in reality, the same internal temperature.
Exact.
The same temperature.
Yet we perceive the cold steel to touch. The truth is that we feel the cold of our own body private of heat.
The steel has high thermal conductivity, which is why it absorbs quickly our heat, leaving us cold fingers.
Isn’t crazy?
Isn’t crazy the way everything changes direction?
We should feel the sense of guilt for having defined cold something that is actually in perfect temperature, but if annoyed -touched- it takes the heat of a hug. We who have touched him, not vice versa. Our fault.
In fact it is clear: these are our fingers to become cold and not the steel to heat up, so it should be intuitive that we who are become cold, and not steel.
But the human mind has a tendency to point the finger, before making any assessment of self-criticism.
The direct consequence is the expression of wrong judgments, the indirect result is the conditioning of thought of other third parties and the formulation of more hasty judgments. And to follow.
When will we learn honesty and transparency? Above all, the objective self-criticism.

Now, the next time you touch the steel, you’ll know that you who are cold and you were wrong.
And when you are involved in any matter, you can begin to ask yourself if you’re in fact mistaken reaching for the steel, and maybe you can even get to ask why the steel has so much need to absorb heat.

This year the fashion weeks tulle and transparency have marked an upcoming trend (especially Dior), and I had chosen at the right time this Romwe dress. Among the many variations to be allowed to wear, I chose the most classic and chic, but I imagine it with jeans and a t-shirt is able to create a completely opposite mood. How would you wear it?

For the initiative on Instagram:
-create an image inspired by this article (for the theme, images or anything else);
-post it on instagram with the hashtag: #picsfordasynka and #dasynkasteel;
-tag me under the pic;
-comment below this article explaining your inspiration and/or adding the link of your image.
Tomorrow I’ll repost on my wall the pic that hit me the most, for all day.


Quanto spesso tendiamo a giudicare senza prima comprendere. E per comprendere non intendo solo capire affondo una situazione prima di esprimere giudizio, intendo comprendere le persone.
Intendo comprendere l’acciaio, prima di giudicarlo freddo.

Forse non sapete che il legno e l’acciaio hanno, in realtà, la stessa temperatura interna.
Esatto.
La stessa, medesima temperatura.
Eppure noi al tatto percepiamo l’acciaio freddissimo. La verità è che percepiamo il freddo del nostro stesso corpo privato del calore.
L’acciaio possiede un’alta conduttività termica, motivo per cui assorbe velocemente il nostro calore lasciandoci le dita fredde.
Non è pazzesco?
Non è pazzesco il modo in cui tutto cambia senso?
Dovremmo sentire il senso di colpa per aver definito freddo qualcosa che in realtà è in perfetta temperatura, ma che se infastidito -toccato- si prende il calore di un abbraccio. Siamo noi ad averlo toccato, non viceversa. Colpa nostra.
In effetti è evidente: sono le nostre dita a diventare fredde e non l’acciaio a scaldarsi, quindi dovrebbe essere intuitivo che siamo noi ad essere diventati freddi, e non l’acciaio.
Ma l’animo umano ha la tendenza a puntare il dito, prima di operare qualsiasi valutazione autocritica.
La diretta conseguenza è l’espressione di giudizi sbagliati, l’indiretta conseguenza è il condizionamento del pensiero di altri terzi e la formulazione di ulteriori giudizi affrettati. E a seguire.
Quando impareremo l’onestà e la trasparenza? E soprattutto l’autocritica oggettiva.

Adesso, la prossima volta che toccherete l’acciaio, saprete che siete voi i freddi e di aver sbagliato.
E quando sarete coinvolti in qualsiasi questione, potrete cominciare a chiedervi se non siate voi ad aver sbagliato allungando la mano verso l’acciaio, e magari potrete arrivare anche a domandarvi come mai l’acciaio abbia così tanto bisogno di assorbire calore.

Quest’anno alle fashion weeks il tulle e le trasparenze hanno segnato uno dei prossimi trend (soprattutto Dior), e io avevo scelto giusto in tempo questo abito di Romwe. Tra le infinite varianti per poterlo indossare, ho scelto quella più classica e chic, ma immagino che con jeans e t-shirt riesca a creare un mood completamente opposto. Voi come lo indossereste?

Per l’iniziativa su Instagram:
-create un’immagine ispirata da questo articolo (per il tema, le immagini o qualsiasi altra cosa);
-pubblicatela su instagram con gli hashtag: #picsfordasynka e #dasynkastell;
-taggatemi sotto la foto;
-commentate sotto quest’articolo spiegandomi la vostra ispirazione e/o aggiungendo il link della vostra immagine.
Domani reposterò sulla mia bacheca quella che mi colpirà di più, per tutto il giorno.

Photography by Carmela.vix, www.carmelavicedomini.it

OUTFIT OF THE DAY

DRESS: Romwe (here)
HEELS: Forever21 (similar here)
BRA: Forever21 (here)
SHORTS: Forever21 (here)

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47 Comments

  • Reply
    OnTrend
    7 April 2017 at 15:24

    Absolutely love your blog
    http://ontrend.cf/?p=437

    • Reply
      dasynka
      8 April 2017 at 8:29

      Thank you! xx

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    Layla
    3 April 2017 at 0:34

    This is absolutely gorgeous – love the outfit, it’s perfect for the warmer weather! 🙂

    Layla xx

    http://www.sprinklesofstyle.co.uk

    • Reply
      dasynka
      5 April 2017 at 20:59

      Thanks! xx

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    Valentina
    25 March 2017 at 15:55

    Tesoro questo Outfit è una vera bomba! veramente bella bella

    • Reply
      dasynka
      26 March 2017 at 16:18

      Grazie❤ xx

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    Face to Curls
    24 March 2017 at 0:33

    Love this transparent dress. You should try it over jean next time 🙂

    Ann-Marie | http://facetocurls.com

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      dasynka
      24 March 2017 at 9:13

      Yes, I’ll do! Thank you 🙂 xx

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    Claudia Sartorelli
    22 March 2017 at 18:44

    Sante parole. Un esame di coscienza prima di giudicare non sarebbe poi così male.
    Comunque bellissimo look.
    Un bacio
    C.

    • Reply
      dasynka
      23 March 2017 at 7:23

      Grazie 🙂 xx

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    Curl'S. - Stefania
    20 March 2017 at 22:50

    Che discorso interessante! Mi piace moltissimo il vestito

    • Reply
      dasynka
      21 March 2017 at 8:49

      Grazie 🙂 xx

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    Elifnaz
    19 March 2017 at 18:27

    Gorgeous look! This bra is amazing!

    http://bellemelange.net/

    • Reply
      dasynka
      20 March 2017 at 8:12

      Thank you so! xx

  • Reply
    Gaia
    18 March 2017 at 6:55

    Woooow bellissimo il tuo discorso sull’acciaio In questi scatti poi sei bellissima♥️

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    Gaia
    18 March 2017 at 6:54

    Woooow♥️ bellissimo il tuo discorso sull’acciaio In questi scatti poi sei bellissima♥️

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      dasynka
      18 March 2017 at 13:18

      Ti ringrazio tanto❤

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    gemma
    17 March 2017 at 14:41

    Lovely outfit! I love the transparent dress. I think it would also look great over jeans.

    Gemma x
    http://www.jacquardflower.uk

    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:49

      Think the same and have to try it 🙂 xx

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    Annessa
    16 March 2017 at 20:17

    Such a cool look!

    Annessa
    http://www.seekingsunshine.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:49

      Thanks! cx

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    LOla
    16 March 2017 at 17:06

    You look great!
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    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:48

      Thanks, xx

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    Rena
    16 March 2017 at 13:34

    Such a cool dress!
    Thank you for your kind comment on my blog. Do you want to follow each other?
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
    http://www.dressedwithsoul.com

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      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:48

      Thanks! xx

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    LindaLibraLoca
    16 March 2017 at 7:42

    That is an interesting fact about steel. We sure do judge very quickly.

    Linda, Libra, Loca: Beauty, Baby and Backpacking

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      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:48

      Happy we have the same point of view 🙂 xx

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    Katherine
    16 March 2017 at 0:47

    This is so cute!

    http://www.myclusterofthoughts.com/

    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:47

      Thanks! xx

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    Jenny
    16 March 2017 at 0:32

    Wow, the black lace details on the bra are so pretty! And I absolutely loved how you compared steel to our pre-judgement of people. I agree, a lot of times we are too quick to judge and too slow to listen and understand others. Thank you for sharing this 🙂

    Jenny // Geeky Posh

    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:47

      Thank you for have take a minute to read me❤ xx

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    dora
    15 March 2017 at 23:25

    I love transparent tulle dresses – there’s so much layering potential.
    Dora
    http://www.adropofindigo.com/

    • Reply
      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:46

      Yes, it’s true 🙂 xx

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    Marta
    15 March 2017 at 21:57

    Great pictures! Love this outfit! Kisses

    https://thefashionjump.blogspot.com.es

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      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:45

      Thanks! xx

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    Rae
    15 March 2017 at 17:35

    I am so in love with this outfit it is so incredible, and it also take a lot of courage to wear! You look amazing.

    Rae | LFB Blogazine

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      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:45

      Thank you so so much xx

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    Claire
    15 March 2017 at 16:24

    how gorgeous is this bra ! I love forever 21 ! their designs are always the cutest !

    clairetalksbeauty.com

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      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:45

      Oh I love Forever21 too! xx

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    Keri
    15 March 2017 at 15:05

    This is SO gorgeous!! Love the sheer dress with the lace bra underneath <3 Killing it

    Enclothed Cognition

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      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:44

      Thank you so much! xx

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    Roberta
    15 March 2017 at 14:58

    Bellissimo outfit e come sempre i tuoi post sono degli ottimi spunti di riflessione!

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      dasynka
      17 March 2017 at 17:43

      Ti ringrazio tanto❤ xx

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    Unadonnaalcontrario
    15 March 2017 at 10:31

    Davvero interessante questa cosa della temperatura interna dell’acciaio e del legno. Mi hai insegnato qualcosa di nuovo. Grazie

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      dasynka
      15 March 2017 at 10:55

      Grazie a te 🙂 xx

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    Jeanne
    14 March 2017 at 9:25

    That bra is so gorgeous!

    http://www.jeannieinabottleblog.com

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      dasynka
      14 March 2017 at 22:17

      Oh I love it! xx

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