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PERFECTION

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Perfection is a mental mirage that tarnishes the sight, it loses us in a continuous mistake and conditions our idea of ​​happiness.
There is a whole phase of life in which we turn our gaze to a nonexistent perfection but which we believe to see in others.
It means constantly comparing with anyone, always feeling in competition, and in defeat.
It means losing, at a certain point, the meaning of things. Our sense. Our goodness, and our happiness.
We should learn to compare ourselves and measure ourselves only with what we were and what we are; others must be a spur to improve ourselves, never a model of comparison.
Over the years -of life- maturity takes over, which slowly and unknowingly leads us to make things perfect. Not to be content. But to be ourselves the key to perfection. To identify it, obtain it, make it happen. To transform imperfection into perfection, life into love. The pain in grow. And finally be happy.Romwe sent me these two pants and I decided to play with them, creating two identical outfits that completely change style depending on the pants worn. Chic with black culotte, casual with dungarees.
Which style do you prefer?
xx Dasynka


La perfezione è un miraggio mentale che appanna la vista, ci perde in uno sbaglio continuo e condizione la nostra idea di felicità.
Esiste tutta una fase della vita in cui volgiamo lo sguardo ad una perfezione inesistente ma che crediamo di vedere negli altri.
Significa paragonarsi continuamente con chiunque, sentirsi sempre in competizione, e in sconfitta. Significa perdere, ad un certo punto, il senso delle cose. Il nostro senso. Il nostro bene, e la nostra felicità.
Dovremmo imparare a paragonarci e misurarci solo con ció che eravamo e che siamo; gli altri devono essere uno sprono a migliorarci, mai un modello di confronto.
Col passare degli anni -della vita- subentra la maturità, che lentamente e inconsapevolmente ci porta a rendere perfette le cose. Non ad accontentarci. Ma ad essere noi stessi la chiave per la perfezione. Ad individuarla, ricavarla, realizzarla. A trasformare l’imperfezione in perfezione, la vita in amore. Il dolore in crescita. Ed essere finalmente felici.
Non esiste una perfezione universale, essa alberga in ognuno di noi con parametri ed esigenze diverse, ed è una nostra scelta voler essere felici e perfetti. Ognuno è perfetto in sè stesso perchè è dai noi stessi che parte -la perfezione.

Romwe mi ha inviato questi due pantaloni e ho deciso di giocarci creando due outfit identici che cambiano completamente stile a seconda del pantalone indossato. Chic con la culotte nera, casual con la salopette.
Quale stile preferite?
xx Dasynka

OUTFIT OF THE DAY

DUNGAREES: Romwe (here)
CULOTTE: Romwe (here)
BAG: Romwe (here)
SWEATER: Forever21 (similar here and here)
BOOTS: H&M (here)
SUNGLASSES: Asos (here)
NECKLACE: Tiffany&Co.

Photography by Carmela.vix, www.carmelavicedomini.it

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72 Comments

  • Reply
    sonia // daring coco
    16 December 2017 at 6:16

    I love the hemline of that sweater. And I love your words. It all reminds me of a quote by Theodore Roosevelt. “Comparison is the thief of joy”. So is perfection.

    Sxx

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      dasynka
      16 December 2017 at 9:25

      Oh thank you for reading, for your thoughts sharing, and this big comparision. So sweet❤️ xx

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    Mercy
    15 December 2017 at 3:31

    Nice words dear!!! I love both styles, the sweater is pretty and soft and it looks good in both bottoms.

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      dasynka
      16 December 2017 at 9:25

      Thank you so , xx

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    Lorna
    14 December 2017 at 14:33

    I love that top! You styled it great with both, I think I like the dungarees more!

    Raindrops of Sapphire

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      dasynka
      16 December 2017 at 9:24

      I think so 🙂 thanks! xx

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    Claudia Sartorelli
    13 December 2017 at 21:10

    E ci hai giocato molto bene. Hai creato due outfit bellissimi
    Buona serata
    Cla.

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      dasynka
      16 December 2017 at 9:24

      Grazie mille 🙂 xx

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    Nevena Krstic
    13 December 2017 at 18:35

    Both outfits are really cute! 🙂 xx

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      dasynka
      16 December 2017 at 9:24

      Thank you! xx

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    Martina
    13 December 2017 at 14:54

    Stupenda con entrambi gli outfit!
    Molto carina la maglia, rende il tutto molto originale!
    Baci
    Martina

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      dasynka
      13 December 2017 at 16:27

      Grazie mille! xx

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    Unadonnaalcontrario
    13 December 2017 at 12:13

    Fino a qualche anno fa ambivo alla perfezione, ma poi mi sono accorta che essere perfette non rende felici. Anzi a dire il vero, una giusta dose di imperfezione ci rende più belle. Non trovi?

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      dasynka
      13 December 2017 at 16:27

      Assolutamente vero 🙂 ci caratterizza, xx

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    Katherine
    13 December 2017 at 6:09

    Love your outfit! This is so true. Seeking perfection is never a winning game!

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      dasynka
      13 December 2017 at 16:26

      Agree with you 🙂 xx

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    Dominique
    12 December 2017 at 22:54

    I love the dungarees, looks very chic but also perfectly casual. Gorgeous as always hun xx

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      dasynka
      13 December 2017 at 16:26

      Thank you so much 🙂 xx

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    Susanne - Bag at you
    12 December 2017 at 21:12

    Those trousers are absolutely amazing! Xx Susanne

    • Reply
      dasynka
      13 December 2017 at 16:26

      Thanks! xx

  • Reply
    Lisa
    12 December 2017 at 12:30

    I agree with you in all! love your outfit here.

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      dasynka
      12 December 2017 at 14:23

      Thank you so much! xx

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    Sheena Sy Gonzales
    12 December 2017 at 4:17

    Love the boots and pants!

    Sheena

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      dasynka
      12 December 2017 at 14:22

      Thanks, xx

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    Andreea
    11 December 2017 at 22:42

    Adore both your outfits! The black and white one is so chic. Wishing you a great day! xx

    Andreea

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      dasynka
      12 December 2017 at 14:22

      Thank you so 🙂 xx

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    carsla
    11 December 2017 at 22:11

    agreed! beautifully worded. (:

    ♥ | xoxo | ♥ | carsla | ♥

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 December 2017 at 14:21

      Thank you so much! xx

  • Reply
    Giada
    11 December 2017 at 21:54

    Davvero interessante! Bellissime foto… i pantaloni ti stanno benissimo!

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      dasynka
      12 December 2017 at 14:21

      Grazie mille! xx

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    RockSalad
    11 December 2017 at 16:10

    Personalmente amo di più i look sportivi ma mi piace molto anche quello elegante che per il lavoro trovo sia perfetto!

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      dasynka
      12 December 2017 at 14:21

      Ti ringrazio 🙂 xx

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    Lovely
    11 December 2017 at 15:31

    Dear Dasynka, love both outfits and how you have styled them, I would have to say I prefer the chic style. xoxo Lovely

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      dasynka
      12 December 2017 at 14:21

      Most of you prefer the chic one 🙂 thank you so much! xx

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    Constance
    11 December 2017 at 11:59

    Love both outfits, especially the second one. You look amazing Dasynka!

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      dasynka
      12 December 2017 at 14:20

      So sweet, thank you 🙂 xx

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    Courtney
    11 December 2017 at 2:38

    You look so gorgeous. I love your outfit and the colorful wall in the background.

    • Reply
      dasynka
      11 December 2017 at 9:12

      Thank you so! xx

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    Susie @ Mile High Dreamers
    10 December 2017 at 23:21

    SO agree with the sentiments about perfection. And our society seems to be growing more and more obsessed with this idea of it and achieving it. Embracing and loving yourself no matter what is so key to happiness, and flaws should be celebrated!
    My favorite is the black pants look. But you look pretty much incredible in both!

    Susie

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      dasynka
      11 December 2017 at 9:11

      Yes: embracing and loving yourself is the only key 🙂 thank you as always, xx

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    the adventurer
    10 December 2017 at 21:02

    I really like the black pant white top look, so chic!

    • Reply
      dasynka
      11 December 2017 at 9:10

      Thanks, xx

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    Annabelle
    10 December 2017 at 20:08

    Adore your outfit, the dungarees are so cute!

    x Annabelle

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      dasynka
      11 December 2017 at 9:10

      Thank you! xx

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    Elenia
    10 December 2017 at 17:33

    Complimenti per i due outfit! Io ti preferisco nel pantalone nero ti dà un’aria molto sofisticata

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      dasynka
      11 December 2017 at 7:33

      Ti ringrazio tanto, molti hanno preferito la culotte! xx

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    Shivangi
    10 December 2017 at 13:59

    How gorgeous are you!! I love these effortless yet at the same time casual looks! <3 Such a pretty top! Love your style! Have a lovely day pretty lady!
    xx
    Shivangi

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      dasynka
      11 December 2017 at 7:32

      Thank you so so much, so sweet❤️ xx

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    Ashley
    10 December 2017 at 10:04

    Babe!! Love this post so much!! To me I think you look perfect!! I totally agree with you. There will always be someone prettier, better but as long as you are truly comfortable and happy with your self! That’s all that matters!! Love it girl!!

    ps, you look uber chic!!

    xxx

    Ashley

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      dasynka
      10 December 2017 at 11:36

      That’s all that matters 🙂 agree with you! Thank you so much♥ xx

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    Nancy
    10 December 2017 at 0:59

    I agree with you about perfection. Sometimes, it blinds us from what truly matters. Perfection is only a perception that people have; and who are we to define what make things perfect? Love your outfits!

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      dasynka
      10 December 2017 at 8:00

      It’s the exact point: we can’t define one perfection or judge other. Even ourselves. Thank you❤️ xx

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    Dina
    9 December 2017 at 23:47

    Nice photos!

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      dasynka
      10 December 2017 at 7:58

      Thanks, xx

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    Emily
    9 December 2017 at 20:09

    Gorgeous photos and such lovely words! I completely agree with you, I truly people perfection is unattainable and not worth chasing!

    Musings & More

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      dasynka
      10 December 2017 at 7:58

      Yes, it is 🙂 thank you, xx

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    E.
    9 December 2017 at 19:30

    I think that nowadays, with social media “starts”, a lot of young people could see in their life a perfection they are looking for but they don’t know what is the reality behind it.
    Love you you can style so perfectly the same piece.
    Kisses,
    E.

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      dasynka
      10 December 2017 at 7:56

      That’s so true, we need to be educated to look right at all these social people.. thank you 🙂 xx

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    Katya
    8 December 2017 at 20:08

    As they say, “ comparing yourself to others is the greatest source of unhappiness. It brings nothing good on you. Just be who you really are and that’s it.

    StyleSprinter Blog by Katya Bychkova

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      dasynka
      9 December 2017 at 0:22

      Exactly 🙂 that’s the right way to live ❤️ xx

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    Simone
    8 December 2017 at 11:19

    So cool! I really love your style

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      dasynka
      8 December 2017 at 11:37

      Thanks! xx

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    The life of a bee
    8 December 2017 at 10:58

    Le bretelle donano quel tocco in più, le adoro!

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      dasynka
      8 December 2017 at 11:37

      Stesso pensiero 🙂 xx

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    Giada
    7 December 2017 at 18:08

    Mi piacciono molto entrambi gli outfit, ma forse mi piace un pochino di più quello sportivo..anche se, devo ammettere, sono tutti e due molto belli

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      dasynka
      8 December 2017 at 11:38

      Anche io credo di preferire quello sportivo 🙂 xx

  • Reply
    3cuori1capanna
    5 December 2017 at 23:37

    “Dovremmo imparare a paragonarci e misurarci solo con ciò che eravamo e che siamo; gli altri devono essere uno sprono a migliorarci, mai un modello di confronto.” Questa frase mi fa pensare ad una frase che mi dice sempre mia mamma: “quando tra te e un’amica comincia ad esserci invidia sicuramente amicizia non è!”… E così mi voglio collegare alla tua frase, perché mi è capitato di confronto con una persona e volere essere come lei, e troppo tardi ho capito che era sbagliato. Ma col tempo, per fortuna, si matura, si cresce, s’impara a prendere le giuste decisioni.
    Bello l’ outfits! ❤️

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      dasynka
      8 December 2017 at 11:41

      Sono cose che non ci insegnano e bisogna impararle da soli, anche per comprenderle meglio. Per fortuna si, che il dolore si trasforma in maturità 🙂 tua madre ha ragione, dove c’è invidia non c’è nessun altro sentimento purtroppo. ❤️ xx

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    Emily
    5 December 2017 at 23:11

    Loving both of these looks! Perfection is totally overrated. 😉

    -Emily http://www.coatandcoffee.com

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      dasynka
      5 December 2017 at 23:18

      Yes, true! And thank you 🙂 xx

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    Alyssa
    5 December 2017 at 22:10

    Very cool looks! My fave is the first one 🙂

    xx Alyssa | STYLE VANITY

    • Reply
      dasynka
      5 December 2017 at 23:18

      Thank you 🙂 xx

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