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Happiness is a word that defines an infinite set of sensations. As flock, as team, as fleet. You studied them in elementary schools and learned that with one word you meant so many units in unison. But the units are just this: unique and different.
A flock is full of different birds, a team is composed of so many souls totally incomparable, and so the emotions we put together in happiness.
I divide my mind in two contemporary thoughts, now, as I write:
-happiness is a set of so many separate feelings that lead to it;
-happiness indicates a set of different feelings that all indicate a specific state of mood but of intensity, completeness, and duration different per person and situation.
So not only happiness is a collective name of the many unique feelings that make up it, but at the same time a common name that defines an emotion different and individual connected every time and for every person to causes and with different empathic consequences.

Happinesses are so many and varied, there are the immediate and brief ones, the ones we have as the slight but continuous background, the ones we build ourselves and the ones we cling to, and there are those happiness that give you everything and take you away, I am happy because I’m more than I could expect from life but it is complicated to be happy and just enough.

It’s a time full of changes and complications and emotions that sometimes I become apathetic for the many sensations that nullify each other.
I know I’m lucky and I couldn’t ask for better, yet something makes this whole happiness complicated.
I thank life every day for everything. I have nothing to complain about and I do not complain -never.
But I’m happy with a complicated happiness. A happiness in default of something, that is not complete, that will always lack a piece replaced by regret, a nostalgia that comes to the bones and digs you into the soul and with whom I’ll live together for the rest of my life.
And then you are happy and nostalgically sad, because you miss, God how much you miss, the fullness of life in your difficult conception of joy. I wonder if it happens to everyone. If everyone will always have something that will not complete their happiness.

PS. As always, I take advantage of a sudden thought that crosses my mind while traveling on a train back from work, to show you a new outfit. This shorts is from Romwe and is exactly what I wanted: soft, wide and of a summer color, baby blue, one of my favorites.


La felicità è una parola che definisce un insieme infinito di sensazioni. Come stormo, come squadra, come flotta. Le studiavi alle elementari e imparavi che con una sola parola si intendeva tante unità all’unisono. Ma le unità sono proprio questo: uniche e diverse.
Uno stormo è pieno di uccelli diversi, una squadra è composta da tante anime assolutamente incomparabili, e così le emozioni che mettiamo insieme nella felicità.
Mi divido in due pensieri contemporanei, adesso, mentre scrivo:
-la felicità è un insieme di tante sensazioni separate che portano ad essa stessa;
-la felicità indica un insieme di sensazioni diverse che definiscono tutte uno stadio d’animo specifico ma di intensità, completezze e durata diversa per persona e situazione.
Quindi non solo felicità è un nome collettivo delle tante sensazioni esclusive che la compongono, ma allo stesso tempo un nome comune che si riferisce a un’emozione diversa ed individuale collegata ogni volta e per ogni persona a cause e con conseguenze empatiche differenti.

Le felicità sono tante e varie, ci sono quelle immediate e brevi, quelle che abbiamo di fondo lievi ma continue, quelle che ci costruiamo noi stessi e quelle a cui ci aggrappiamo, e ci sono quelle felicità che ti danno tutto e ti tolgono altro: sono felicità perché sono più di quanto potessi aspettarti dalla vita ma è complicato esserne felici e basta.

È un periodo saturo di cambiamenti e complicazioni ed emozioni che a volte divento apatica per le tante sensazioni che si annullano a vicenda.
So che sono fortunata e non potrei chiedere di meglio, eppure qualcosa rende tutta questa felicità complicata.
Ringrazio la vita ogni giorno per tutto quanto. Non ho nulla di cui lamentarmi e non mi lamento –mai.
Ma sono felice di una felicità complicata. Una felicità in difetto di qualcosa, che non è completa, che sempre mancherà di un pezzo sostituito da rammarico, una nostalgia che arriva alle ossa e ti scava nell’anima e con cui convivrò per tutta la vita.
E allora sei felice e nostalgicamente triste, perché ti manca, Dio quanto ti manca, la pienezza della vita nel tuo difficile concepimento di gioia. Chissà se succede a tutti. Se tutti avranno sempre qualcosa che mancherà a completare la loro felicità.

PS. Come sempre approfitto di un pensiero improvviso che mi attraversa la mente mentre sono in viaggio in treno di ritorno da lavoro, per mostrarvi un nuovo outfit. Questo shorts è di Romwe ed è esattamente come lo desideravo: morbido, largo e di un colore estivo, il baby blue, uno dei miei preferiti.

OUTIFTI OF THE DAY
SHORTS: Romwe (here)
TANK TOP: H&M (similar here)
SANDALS: (similar here)
BAG: H&M (similar here)
BRACELETS: Trollbeads and Pandora (here)
RINGS: Accessorize (similar here and here)
NECKLACE: Parfois (similar here)

Photography by Carmela.vix, www.carmelavicedomini.it

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42 Comments

  • Reply
    Shannon
    8 September 2017 at 6:44

    Thanks for a lovely read. I think we all feel like this at some point. It’s similar to the feeling people get when they “just need this one thing more & I’ll be happy” but it never really fills that void. I can understand what you mean, but I honestly think we never feel completely happy (even if everything is perfect in our lives) after leaving childhood. It’s an odd feeling. I do love your outfit though! That blue is so pretty on you!

    TFM Life & Style blog

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      dasynka
      8 September 2017 at 15:46

      Yes, the complete happiness is so hard, but I remember so many times I was, and I understand how much I cannot again.
      thank you for your time, your reding, your thoughts. It means the world for me ❤ xx

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    Elenia Scarsella
    6 September 2017 at 15:05

    Sono proprio deliziosi questi short

    • Reply
      dasynka
      7 September 2017 at 9:07

      Grazie, xx

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    Stacey
    6 September 2017 at 1:11

    First off, I love your outfit and the blue looks beautiful on you! Second, I love this post on happiness. I think we all spent too much time looking for it that we forget what’s around us that is happiness <3

    • Reply
      dasynka
      6 September 2017 at 11:48

      You are right, so much. Happiness is around and inside us always❤️ xx

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    Paloma
    5 September 2017 at 22:18

    Great look, love your shorts!

    Kisses,

    http://www.theartofpaloma.com/

    • Reply
      dasynka
      6 September 2017 at 11:47

      Thanks, xx

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    Curl'S. - Stefania
    5 September 2017 at 7:14

    La penso esattamente come te riguardo questo tema. Credo che comunque la felicità dipenda anche da queste piccole nostalgie e mancanze: grazie ad esse appreziamo di più i momenti felici. Detto questo gli shorts li adoro, di questo modello ne ho diversi e sono comodissimi

    • Reply
      dasynka
      6 September 2017 at 11:47

      È sempre bello confrontarsi su queste tematiche 🙂 sono davvero comodissimi, per me è il primo paio così xx

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    mahryska
    5 September 2017 at 6:39

    such a beautiful post hun…and love love your shorts!!
    kisses in the sandpit ❤︎
    http://www.mahryska.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      6 September 2017 at 11:46

      Thank you so! xx

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    Kara
    4 September 2017 at 21:39

    Such a great post on happiness! Beautifully written. And I love your blue shorts! The color is beautiful and they look amazing on you x

    x Kara | http://karascloset.net/

    • Reply
      dasynka
      4 September 2017 at 22:45

      Thank you so so much for reading❤️ xx

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    bonjourchiara
    4 September 2017 at 10:09

    sei incredibilmente brava a scrivere!!! bellissime le parole sulla felicità xx
    http://www.bonjourchiara.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      4 September 2017 at 22:45

      Ti ringrazio di vero cuore❤️ xx

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    Marica
    3 September 2017 at 20:29

    I pantaloncini mi piacciono tantissimo, ma io mi sono innamorata soprattutto della borsa! E bellissima! <3

    • Reply
      dasynka
      4 September 2017 at 22:45

      Anche io la adoro! xx

  • Reply
    Amy
    2 September 2017 at 15:01

    Love these cute blue shorts!

    Amy Ann
    Straight A Style

    • Reply
      dasynka
      4 September 2017 at 22:44

      Thank you! xx

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    Nancy
    2 September 2017 at 6:37

    I agree with you about happiness. Happiness is something that everyone can relate to in various ways. Some people always want more happiness and that kind of standard is hard to achieve when you’ve already had so much. I feel like we need to appreciate and be happy with what we currently have.

    https://exquisitely.me

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      dasynka
      2 September 2017 at 8:10

      Exactly! But can be happy with so many little things, happiness is a state of mind! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me❤️ xx

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    Len Parent
    2 September 2017 at 3:27

    You look absolutely gorgeous! Love your shorts! Thanks for the inspiration!
    Have a wonderful long weekend ahead!
    Much love, Len
    http://www.lenparent.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      2 September 2017 at 8:09

      Thank you! xx

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    Lisa
    1 September 2017 at 16:10

    Such a heartfelt post and I love that you took advantage of your thoughts. Well put together and great outfit.

    Lisa Linh
    http://www.bylisalinh.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      2 September 2017 at 8:08

      Thank you so so much for your time, xx

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    Heather Rowland
    1 September 2017 at 8:21

    I love how you’ve analysed the idea of happiness – beautiful writing and a really thought-provoking post. Gorgeous outfit too – those shorts are amazing!

    Heather xx
    https://www.hefafa.me.uk

    • Reply
      dasynka
      2 September 2017 at 8:08

      Thank you for your feedback 🙂 xx

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    Kim
    1 September 2017 at 2:54

    In love with your outfit! That shade of blue is my FAVORITE!

    Kim
    Simply Lovebirds

    • Reply
      dasynka
      2 September 2017 at 8:07

      Mine too xx

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    Kate
    31 August 2017 at 23:26

    Those shorts are fabulous! You look so beautiful in the pics. I love your take on happiness. I think many people strive to be happy all of the time, but that’s not possible – nor is it even beneficial. We can’t fully appreciate moments of happiness unless we have contrasting experiences.

    XO, Kate

    http://www.kategetsdressed.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      2 September 2017 at 8:06

      It’s my same thought! Thank you for sharing it with me 🙂 xx

  • Reply
    jodie
    31 August 2017 at 23:01

    Your message is so profound, Dasynka!!
    XOXO
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      1 September 2017 at 17:40

      Thank you, xx

  • Reply
    barbiegirl06
    31 August 2017 at 9:09

    Such a beautiful post! Also, love the outfit 🙂

    https://barbiegirl06.wordpress.com/

    • Reply
      dasynka
      31 August 2017 at 16:51

      Thanks! xx

  • Reply
    Giada Santoro
    30 August 2017 at 15:47

    Ecco, meno male che hai approfittato perchè ni domandavo dive avessi preso quei meraviglioso pantaloncini da quando ho iniziato a leggere l’articolo!!

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      dasynka
      30 August 2017 at 15:53

      Sono tanto carini, eh? xx

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    Amanda Monaco
    30 August 2017 at 15:26

    This color make me happy and I love the combo with the bag

    • Reply
      dasynka
      30 August 2017 at 15:53

      Thank you! xx

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    Unadonnaalcontrario
    30 August 2017 at 15:21

    Io sono convinta che felicità e casini si sposino sempre. Perché è quando fai dei cambiamenti verso la felicità si smuove sempre qualcosa. L’importante è non perdere la rotta

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      dasynka
      30 August 2017 at 15:52

      Hai perfettamente ragione 🙂 xx

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