Rome

ESCAPE IN ROME

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The day after Mom’s funeral we escaped to Rome, to breathe a new and different air.
To let the sun heat us, that the scenarios confuse and the change creates an unreal bubble around us like a dream.
I no longer sense of time, it’s like nothing has changed in my life, or it has never been different from this. The lack of mom get to sudden gusts of wind, then calms down and it seems could return at any moment, after one of his long trips. I dream of her every night in different everyday situations and in all she’s present even if she shouldn’t, and for me it is only natural to see her from the stands of the church at Mass dedicated to her or reflected in a shop window while walking on the street.
I feel sometimes its absence as presence, presence in myself, as if a part of me was her, a part of my thoughts. I know what she could tell me in any situation, and if before I told her my things for the sake of sharing them, I just think of them now and it’s as if we were speaking. As if we were two minds in one body, two appearances in one. A whole. She’s always present.
Now I understand exactly what they mean when people repeat that those who leave never leaves us really. Remaining always within us.It’s all about independence and complete knowledge. It had been so long since I not depended more from mom and that I ran my life in total autonomy, due to my experience alone. And I got to know her without reservations, we were in complete harmony. I understood her approach to life, her periods of depression, her feelings and thoughts. In the morgue I didn’t recognize that body, as she was a foreign thing that doesn’t belong to me. I happen to think that there was nothing else she had yet to convey to me.
But to achieve this it’s essential to not depend on who we love. Have no regrets, not to miss opportunities. Being able to have a complete knowledge of the other so you get to predict the thoughts, suggestions, ideas. This is what leads us to let cohabit within us a part of who leaves us, that part immaterial and more important.

At the funeral I was dressed exactly like that: in white.
Some told me that see me and my sister smiling and in white conveyed a sense of peace and serenity. And it was what we wanted.
We received many thanks for the life lesson that we sent, and it’s an immense joy to be able to teach through Mom. Being able to look beyond the events to understand the ultimate meaning of fate.
Every end is a beginning. (here)

Rome is enchanting. The sun was so hot that I have no coat out, because this sweater is very hot and super soft.
We visited the Colosseum and the Roman Forum, and ate lunch by Aromaticus, a small, cozy little place, unique: on a wall it was realized a kind of small glass greenhouse for aromatic plants such as mint, the lemon balm, that they use within their healthy recipes. We tasted couscous with vegetables Mexican seasoning, baked potatoes with gorgonzola, soy meatballs with eggplant sauce. And smoothies from fresh fruit and vegetables: for me mint and pineapple. Never tasted a better smoothie. They offer their water flavored with lemon mint and other herbs. It is near the Cavour metro.

Roma gave me two days of infinite peace. We remembered many things of mom and staying there made everything unreal and soft, laughs. Life is a wonderful game, if you understand and accept its rules.

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Il giorno dopo il funerale di mamma siamo scappati a Roma, per respirare un’aria nuova e diversa. Per lasciare che il sole ci riscaldasse, che gli scenari ci confondessero e il cambiamento creasse una bolla irreale intorno a noi come in un sogno.
Non ho più percezione del tempo, è come se non fosse cambiato nulla nella mia vita, oppure non è mai stata diversa da questo. La mancanza di mamma mi arriva a folate di vento improvvise, poi si calma e mi sembra potrebbe tornare da un momento all’altro, dopo uno dei suoi lunghi viaggi.
La sogno ogni notte in diverse situazioni quotidiane e in tutte lei è presente anche se non dovrebbe, e per me è assolutamente naturale vederla tra gli spalti della chiesa alla messa dedicata a lei oppure riflessa in una vetrina mentre passeggio per strada.
Sento a volte la sua assenza come presenza, presenza in me stessa, come se una parte di me fosse lei, una parte dei miei pensieri. So cosa potrebbe dirmi in qualsiasi situazione, e se prima le raccontavo le cose per il gusto di condividerle, adesso mi basta pensarle ed è come se le stessi parlando. Come se fossimo due menti in un corpo, due presenze in una. Un tutt’uno. È sempre presente.
Adesso capisco perfettamente quello che intendono le persone che ripetono che chi se ne va non ci lascia mai veramente. Che restano sempre dentro di noi.
È tutta una questione di indipendenza e conoscenza completa. Era da tanto che non dipendevo più da mamma e che gestivo la mia vita in completa autonomia, in conseguenza al mio vivere sola. E ho imparato a conoscerla senza riserve, eravamo in completa sintonia. Capivo il suo approccio alla vita, i suoi periodi di depressione, i suoi sentimenti e pensieri. In obitorio non riconoscevo quel corpo come lei, era una cosa estranea che non mi apparteneva. Mi capita di pensare che non c’era nient’altro che avesse ancora da trasmettermi.
Ma per arrivare a questo è indispensabile non dipendere da chi amiamo. Non avere rimpianti, non perdere occasioni. Riuscire ad avere una conoscenza completa dell’altro da arrivare a prevederne i pensieri, i consigli, le idee. È questo che ci porta a far convivere dentro noi una parte di chi ci lascia, quella immateriale e più importante.

Al funerale ero vestita esattamente così: di bianco.
Alcuni mi hanno detto che vedere me e mia sorella sorridenti e bianche trasmetteva un senso di pace e serenità. Ed era quello che volevamo.
Abbiamo ricevuto tanti ringraziamenti per la lezione di vita che abbiamo trasmesso, ed è una gioia immensa essere riuscite ad insegnare attraverso mamma. Essere riuscite a guardare oltre gli avvenimenti per capire il senso ultimo del destino.
Ogni fine è un inizio. (qui)

Roma è incantevole. Il sole era così caldo che sono uscita senza cappotto, anche perché questo maglione è caldissimo e super morbido.
Abbiamo visitato il Colosseo e il Foro Romano, e pranzato da Aromaticus, un posticino piccolo e accogliente, unico nel suo genere: su una parete è stata realizzata una specie di piccola serra di vetro per piantine aromatiche come la menta, la melissa, la mentuccia, che usano all’interno delle loro ricette healthy. Abbiamo assaggiato couscous con condimento di verdure alla messicana, patate al forno con gorgonzola, polpette di soia con salsa di melanzane. E frullati di freschi di frutta e verdura: per me menta e ananas. Mai assaggiato un frullato migliore. Offrono acqua aromatizzata al limone menta e altre erbe. Si trova vicino alla metro Cavour.

Roma mi ha regalato due giornate di pace infinita. Abbiamo ricordato tante cose di mamma e stare lì rendeva tutto irreale e leggero, risate. La vita è un gioco meraviglioso, se si comprendono e accettano le sue regole.

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Domani reposterò sulla mia bacheca quella che mi colpirà di più, per tutto il giorno.

Photography by me and Carmela.vix, www.carmelavicedomini.it

OUTFIT OF THE DAY

SWEATER: Shein (here)
LEGGINS: Stradivarius (similar here)
SHOES: Primark (similar here and here)
BAG: Primark (similar here, here and here)
SUNNIES: Mango (here)
BRACELET: H&M (similar here and here)
RING: Nobrand (similar here)
EARRINGS: Handmade (similar here)

 

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32 Comments

  • Reply
    Kahoot
    16 December 2016 at 4:54

    I love it. They have the most comfortable shoes! These holiday outfits are so cute!

    • Reply
      dasynka
      16 December 2016 at 14:53

      Oh yes! Thank you so 🙂 xx

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    Didier
    14 December 2016 at 16:25

    I am sorry to hear about your mom. I’m sure she will be dearly miss. You do look wonderful though on the other hand.

    -Didier
    http://www.didieryhc.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      14 December 2016 at 19:49

      Thank you so much, Inreally approciate it❤️

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    Federica Di Nardo
    14 December 2016 at 11:03

    Mi spiace per la tua perdita, stai benissimo in bianco!

    Federica Di Nardo
    http://federicadinardo.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      14 December 2016 at 11:46

      Ti ringrazio❤️

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    Siffat
    12 December 2016 at 16:04

    These pictures are magical. You are making me want to book a ticket to Rome right now!
    xo
    Siffat
    http://icingandglitter.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      12 December 2016 at 20:52

      It’s an honor for me to convey the beauty of Rome! Thank you so xx

  • Reply
    Jessie
    9 December 2016 at 3:13

    I’m sorry for the loss babe. It’s a beautiful piece of writing and the photos are so amazingly taken! I have specially loves for Rome. It’s such a beautiful city! hopefully I will be able to visit soon again.

    Btw, wish you an amazing 2017 giving that there are only 21 days left for 2016!

    xx, Jessie
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    • Reply
      dasynka
      9 December 2016 at 12:22

      Thank you so much, I really approciate it <3

  • Reply
    Anya Dryagina
    9 December 2016 at 1:32

    Wonderful city and wonderful photos! Love your sweater!
    Have a good Friday!
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    • Reply
      dasynka
      9 December 2016 at 12:21

      You too! xx

  • Reply
    Kelsey Bang
    7 December 2016 at 20:21

    I love your sweater! great photo spot!

    kelseybang.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      9 December 2016 at 12:20

      Thanks! xx

  • Reply
    Layla
    7 December 2016 at 13:59

    This is such a beautiful post – lovely photos, all so pretty! 🙂
    Layla xx

    http://www.sprinklesofstyle.co.uk

    • Reply
      dasynka
      7 December 2016 at 14:50

      Thank you so! xx

  • Reply
    Nina
    6 December 2016 at 22:19

    Stunning ! Great photos !
    Nina
    xox
    http://www.hecrispylipstick.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      7 December 2016 at 8:45

      Thanks! xx

  • Reply
    About Tracy
    5 December 2016 at 23:33

    Great photos it seems wonderful ♡

    https://about-tracy.blogspot.com/

    Kisses ♡

    • Reply
      dasynka
      6 December 2016 at 20:18

      Thank you! xx

  • Reply
    Gemma
    5 December 2016 at 18:00

    Wow looks so nice! I love your outfit. Gemma x
    http://www.jacquardflower.uk

    • Reply
      dasynka
      5 December 2016 at 18:08

      Thank you so! xx

  • Reply
    caroline
    5 December 2016 at 14:41

    Those pics are super beautiful !!

    http://www.pardonmyobsession.com/

    • Reply
      dasynka
      16 December 2016 at 15:00

      Thank you so much! xx

  • Reply
    Taislany Gomes
    5 December 2016 at 13:26

    Stunning! Love the white vibe!

    Kisses & Happy Monday,
    BLOG | TAISLANY

    • Reply
      dasynka
      5 December 2016 at 18:07

      Thank you! xx

  • Reply
    Violet
    5 December 2016 at 11:40

    I find Rome is the place I go to get away and ‘be at one with myself’ again- so I completely understand where you’re coming from. Lovely sentiment in getting away and visiting somewhere so historical and beautiful to ‘breathe new air’.

    I also of course have to add that you look SIMPLY STUNNING in all pictures and make me wish I was back there.

    Violet xxx
    http://www.iamnoshrinkingviolet.co.uk

    • Reply
      dasynka
      5 December 2016 at 17:56

      Rome has some particular magic that transports you far away. Really, a huge thanks to you ❤️ xx

  • Reply
    Mercy
    5 December 2016 at 7:39

    Sad story but important is that you coped really well. This is a nice outfit, you look beautiful, I like your sweater and shoes.

    http://www.busyandfab.com

    • Reply
      dasynka
      5 December 2016 at 17:54

      Thank you so much ❤️ I approciate it. xx

  • Reply
    Filipa Jackson
    5 December 2016 at 3:47

    This is a really lovely blog post, always wanted to go to Rome

    Filipa xxx
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    • Reply
      dasynka
      5 December 2016 at 9:18

      You definetly need to go! xx

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